If you’re looking to get to know someone much better, then this game is for you. This “21 Questions” game is one of the best out there to get to know your best friends, crush, and lovers on a deeper level. We’ve gathered the best questions which will get you both talking and spark fun and meaningful conversations that will bring you closer together.

How do you play the 21 Questions game?

It is a simple game to play and you can with two or more people. If it’s just you and 1 other person you can take turns asking each other questions. Alternatively, one person can answer multiple questions (Maybe all 21 questions) and then you can reverse the roles once the first person has given all their answers.

If you’re in a group, one person can ask the question and then everyone in the group answers one after the other (with the person who asked the question answering last). Once everyone has answered the question, the next player should choose the question and everyone answers again and then continues until you cover 21 questions each.

You could set rules so that each player could skip a turn if they want to answer a specific question or you could set rules that no one can skip a question or else they have to do a forfeit challenge. Listed below are more than 21 questions that you could ask each other, including intimate questions for your crush or lover which could bring you closer together.

21 Questions to ask

  • What’s the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?
  • What celebrity do you love?
  • What would be the name of your kid if you had one tomorrow?
  • What song do you love singing in the shower?
  • What’s your favourite colour to wear?
  • What’s your favourite meal?
  • What’s one thing you have in common with your mum and dad?
  • What’s one thing that annoys you about your parents?
  • Who are you closest to in your family?
  • What’s the best lie you’ve ever told?
  • What’s your favourite sport and why?
  • What film could you watch over and over again?
  • What’s one activity that you hate doing?
  • If you were stranded on an island with 3 people, who would they be?
  • What do you hate about social media?
  • What personal questions would you not want to answer?
  • If you could choose a family sitcom, which one would you choose and why?
  • What’s your dream job?
  • If you have £1 million to spend, what would you buy?
  • If you go back to one time in your life, what would you do differently?
  • What’s your favourite season of the year?
  • What’s your biggest fear?
  • What’s your biggest regret?
  • What’s the craziest thing you have done?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve been given?
  • What’s your dream holiday?
  • What bad habits do people find annoying?
  • What do you love about yourself?
  • What’s one childhood memory that you remember fondly?
  • If you could have dinner with one famous person, who would you choose?

Bonus questions to ask your crush or partner

These intimate questions will definitely help you to learn more about the person you admire and if you both align in terms of character and values. These flirty questions may make your connection stronger to your crush or lover.

  • Do you believe in love at first sight?
  • Do you remember your first kiss?
  • What was your first impression of me?
  • What’s your ideal first date setting?
  • What 5 things do you look for in a partner?
  • What makes you swift left on a dating app?
  • What is true love to you?
  • Have you experienced true love?
  • What’s the craziest thing you’ve done to grab someone’s attention?
  • If you had a conversation with your ex, what question would you ask them?
  • What emojis do you often use in text messages?
  • How do find first dates?
  • Have you done anything embarrassing on a first date?
  • What’s your biggest fear in a relationship?
  • What’s a great place to take your date?
  • Whose relationship do you love to see and why?
  • When do you make your relationship public on social media?
  • What’s your biggest turnoff?
  • What’s your biggest turn-on?
  • What do you love about me?
  • What was the last flirty text that you sent?
  • What do you love about being single?
  • What do you hate about being single?
  • What’s the worst excuse you’ve used to get out of a date?
  • How do you get over a breakup?
  • Would you prefer a casual or serious relationship right now?
  • What’s the most challenging thing about being in a long-term relationship?
  • What’s your biggest regret from a past relationship?
  • Would you write your own vows if you were getting married?
  • Would prefer to love and lose than never love at all?